Brilliant Stealer #2 - Everyone is Lonely
Seth Godin – Whatcha Gonna Do With That Duck?
Everyone is lonely
"People spend money (and make money) and join organizations and invest time and enormous energy to solve this problem. Everyday"
Jazzing...
Being lonely is bad, isn't it?
For myself, it was a YES long time ago. I could talk and smile to you, all of my friends, but nobody knew I just really wanted a hug. People saw me as an active guy tried to involve with extra-curricular activities and made my life interesting. I just put a nice cover of myself and tried to run away from loneliness. I hated the feeling when I came back home and it was just only me in the room. I talked to myself, "Now I know why people get marriage? They want to have somebody to talk to loose the sense of being lonely and bored."
It is turning a NO now. I figure out feeling loneliness is kind of cool. You have time to do what you like. One thing I figure out is I like writing and I really want to be good at it. Being lonely now is the time for building yourself up. I take time to go running everyday. Being by yourself is a challenge for my creative thinking to figure out what kind of activities that I can train myself and perfect it. I create a list of things that I want to fill up myself:
- Write blog daily - doing
- Run everyday -> doing
- Read books daily -> doing
- Think about my startup -> I really need to work on this one
- Play guitar -> not doing, need to work on too
- Listen to Jazz music -> doing now. I think Jazz is a type of music is just good when you are listening by yourself or with (only one) your loved one. It is a type of individual music
For me now, being loneliness is not about being yourself. However, being lonely is when you cannot find a way to make you feel happy or meaningful. If you have a higher purpose of living or at least a joyful activity (for me, it is writing now), you won't be lonely.
Also, I have GOD who can always be there to talk to me. Having a faith is something will help you go a long way in life, because I think most critical times in your life you will be with you and yourself and GOD. Need a proof? Watch Life of Pi.
Listening to Desperado (Jazz version) now... Feeling good with nobody around me....and the silence of night is my great friend...
Me -> (^v^) + (*_*) <- Silence (he is not happy like me, because he is really silent, LOL).
I think it's it always nice to being alone, especially when you surround by the noisy in the family and you just wish you can get out of it as soon as you can, js so you can have some peaceful time to think and to recognize yourself of the day. I used to hate the word "lonliness" so much. It waz never my favorite word at all...becux of that word...it always threaten me that one day my Mom will no longer around me...and i will be a loner...and will most likely celebrate the holidays alone. When i thought abt that. I got scared!!! I did wish to have meet a guy so i can have my own family and i wont be alone if one day it actually happen. But as i have God in me now. He completely changed my thinkin'. He lets me knw, theres no such loneliness when i have Him in me. He is some one i can always count on no matter how my life will be. He gives me hope for a better day 2morrow and let me knw that never let that word lonliness ruin my life as i rush into seekin' for a relationship. A relationship where i dont knw it will bring me happiness or another disaster of the chapter of my life. Therefore, He lets me knw that as i obey Him and readin' His words and do as He says. He promises will bring me a man who can make me happy for the rest of my life. So yeah, as He has promised me that....i dont need to worry findin' my other half anymore. I will only need to focus on what He wants me to focus on and that is read His words whenever i can and use my strength He gave me to go out to help ppl as much as i can. Help those who really needs help out there.
ReplyDeleteMy goals are:
*Readin' bible everyday (check)
*Find sometime to go work out so i can have good health. Get bck in shape is actually the main reason lolx (need to work on that)
*Finish up my classes for my major (in the process)
*Learn how to control my temper as well as control my tongue
*Last but not least. Love my Mom more. But dont knw how to show her that )0: (workin' on it, but fail most of the time haizzz)
*Lastly try to LIVE A HAPPY LIFEEEEEE less thinkin' and more action Hahahaha